That first date...they are difficult.  Not knowing what to expect, what to wear, where to go...the list goes on and is full of unknowns.  We all want it to go well because maybe they will be "the one." 

Navigate through our tips and set sail for a fantastic voyage. 

If you are going to dinner and a movie, then don't wear eveningware.  Dress appropriately for the date.  

Women: don't wear clothing that can be misinterpreted.  

Men: tell her where you will be going so she can dress for the occasion.  And remember, women always look at shoes.  Be sure yours reflect what you want her to know.

The difference between a good date and a great date lies in the planning.  It doesn't have to be elaborate, especially on a first date.  It could  be as simple as making a reservation, or driving to your destination the day before just to make sure you know how to get there.  You will score more points if it looks as if there was some thought and effort put forth. 

What if it's raining cats and dogs and that outdoor concert has been cancelled?  You never know what can happen.  Have a back up plan just in case.

If a man invites you out for dinner, be considerate of his wallet.  You don't have to order a garden salad for an entree, however lobster and caviar might not be a good idea either.

Be thoughtful and attentive to each other's needs. 

Compliment each other.  Don't go overboard though (See the entry in worst dates ever).   Both of you have made an extra effort to look your best.  Acknowledge it.

Most women like to be treated like a lady; opening the car and restaurant doors for her, holding her chair, and ordering for her (let her tell you what she wants first, of course).

Talk to each other. Take an interest in who they are and what they like to do.

Don't watch the game unless both of you are into it. 

Don't oogle at other men or women.  Nothing's worse than having your date blatently look at someone else.

Get to know each other, not each other's former beau's.  Asking about,  talking about  or referencing former partners, should be avoided on the first several dates.  Speaking negatively about anyone, ex's, friends, even the waitstaff is a huge turnoff. 

Saying "please" and "thank you" go a long way.  It's all about kindness, to everyone, not just your date.  Being kind and considerate are "in."  Table manners are important here too.  Napkin on the lap, eating slowly, cutting food instead of cramming a huge piece of steak in your mouth, not talking with your mouth full...you understand.

Tailgating at a football game with your friends is one thing.  Drinking excessively on a date is a whole other story.   Smelling and tasting like alcohol is not romantic.  What if you throw up?

While we are in a sense "interviewing" each other, it doesn't have to feel like one.  Asking question after question can be intimidating and you might put them off.  Drop the professional office behavior and pick up the casual Friday attitude.

Cell phones are everywhere!  Make sure yours is nowhere to be seen or heard while sitting talking with each other.  It's rude to be on the phone talking when you are sitting across from a date.  If you are expecting a call, tell them up front and then excuse yourself  briefly when it comes. 

One of the biggest turn-offs people have told us is when one person assumes on the first or second date,  that the two of you will be together for the rest of your lives.  Nothing can be worse than one of you planning families, events and where you guys will settle down.

Nothing is more of a turn off than someone talking about themselves continuously. 

and stay in public for the entire date.  Just because your date appears to be a gentleman/lady doesn't mean they are.  Never ride in the car with your date until you feel comfortable.  Follow them instead.