Finding yourself swimming upstream in when it comes to mating?   Continue reading and you will be shore to avoid the sandbars.

Most sites will have two lists; one for the guys and one for the girls.  We feel that everyone can learn from mistakes that have been made, regardless of who has made them.  So, we have listed the top "what not to do's" from both.

1)     Don't focus on why they have separated, divorced, broken up, or never been married. 

2)     Don't talk negatively about anyone!  Not even the waitstaff.  

3)     Don't be late.  If there are circumstances that preclude you from being on time, call and tell them.  

4)     Don't eat like a bird if you are supposed to be having dinner.

5)     Don't drink like a fish.  Especially if you aren't able to hold your liquor.    

Want to help those who are in too deep?  Email us your "what not to do" on dates and in relationships.